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The Big Date….

Never would I ever have thought that one day I would not only consider using, but actually be happy that I decided to use an escort dating service. Dukes of Daisy are like no regular escort service and I’m so glad I found them. In my mid-30’s I suddenly found myself going through a divorce. To be honest, I never expected to actually get divorced which is a little strange considering that I thought about it pretty much all the time. While I was still married, divorce didn’t ever seem like an option... with 2 small children, a house and cat, there was too much going on in my life to focus on the nagging voice in my head telling me on a daily basis how unhappy I was and that as soon as the kids were big I would be out of there!

Then, at 35, life took care of the details for me… as it tends to do and I found myself thrown in the world of divorce, lawyers, and constant turmoil. While my circle of friend’s remains happily married, I found myself in swimming most disconcertingly in the unknown depths of life as a single mother.  No one gives you The Divorce Handbook for times like this! So while my friend’s lives carried on as before, I landed up in a new job, new house and a new dating pool! If you have ever been in this situation, you know what is out there and let me tell you, it’s a little scary. My free time became about trying not to cry myself to sleep over a large packet of crisps every night and facing a social life as a singleton.

I tried it all… going to clubs on my own, just to get out of house, going to work events on my own, dreading each and every minute of it, as the bosses wife accosted me in the ladies room, asking when I was going to start dating again. Being set up by married girlfriends, with some younger man, (because all the good ones are already taken and married at this stage) and awkwardly engaging with a complete stranger with absolutely no mutual interests to the point where crying into that packet of crisps started to look really enticing.

Then the invitation came… a friend of a friend had invited me to her 30th birthday party (the pity invite, no doubt) and a dress up party at that… the theme: dress as your favourite Barbie Doll. The worse part was that I caught wind of the fact that one of my particularly obnoxious ex-dates, was also invited to the party. Knowing that there was NO WAY that I would be going to a Barbie dress up party as “Single Mom Barbie”, possibly the world’s LEAST sexy Barbie doll, which is probably why they never made one! So I made the decision that something had to be done. And that’s when I discovered Dukes of Daisy. The terrifying thought of trying an escort dating service was only surpassed the absolute loathing of the idea of going to a Doll dress up party, and facing my ex, alone.

I did all my research on Dukes of Daisy non-sexual escorts before finally deciding to give it a try, mostly due to the fact that Dukes of Daisy guarantees their service to be totally hassle free, with no emotional drama and headache. Going to the party was so much easier walking into a relative stranger’s party, in dress up clothes, with someone who was so completely relaxed and not at all phased by the circumstances. What a total relief, not having to deal with the lecherous ex but also not having to sit by myself in a corner hoping that someone would take pity on me and include me in their conversation. It wasn’t a late night, I have to be honest, but at the end of it, my escort had been such a gentleman with absolutely no judgement or misguided expectations and I can honestly say that this using Dukes of Daisy was the best idea I have ever had.

~ Anon (Satisfied repeat client)

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